The Pursuer
You need it resolved before you can rest
An open conflict is an open wound for you — you can't settle until it's talked through and the connection feels safe again. You move toward the problem when most people move away, and that courage is real. Your superpower is that things rarely fester on your watch; you make sure they get said. Your blind spot is the chase: the harder you press someone who needs space, the further they retreat, and you can mistake their silence for rejection when it's really overwhelm. The growth move is to let the other person come back on their own clock — pursuit eases when you trust the door is still open.
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- The RetreaterYou step back before you blow up
- The PursuerYou need it resolved before you can restYou're here
- The MenderYou fix the bond before the problem
- The NegotiatorYou go looking for the fair answer
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